Filling the Void
Most of us want to find someone special to spend our lives with. We
want that special someone who will complete us, who knows who we are
and takes care of us. We want them to know what feels good to us, and
what doesn’t. And when we’re not feeling well, we want them to know
exactly what to do to make us feel better. Yet how can we expect
someone to do all these things, when we don’t know how to do them
ourselves?
First, we need to get to know and learn how to care for ourselves,
before expecting anyone else to do it for us. People learn from what
our energy tells them. If we haven’t done the work, our energy will
feel needy, like a void that hasn’t been filled. This is true for
every single person, and that’s how it stays, until we make a
conscious effort to learn what it takes for us to fill the void, and
what we need to do to feel truly happy.
Watch where your thoughts go throughout the day. Your thoughts
control your energy and how you feel. If your thoughts are chaotic,
then your energy is chaotic, and that’s what you’ll attract. But if
your thoughts are loving and caring towards yourself, then so is your
energy. If you learn how to truly care for yourself, your energy will
show it, and others will pick up on your energy.
Pay close attention to your thoughts and how you feel about yourself.
Remember, this takes time, so do your best not to rush. Remember,
too, this is your responsibility, not anyone else’s. Yes, it’s
definitely hard work, but that’s what life is all about: working on
yourself, and learning how to fulfill yourself. Then, when that
special someone comes along, they won’t have to be a necessity in your
life. They can simply be an amazing bonus!
Deborah Koan
“Step out of your head and into your heart.”
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